In Memory

Rick West

Obituary

Robert “Rick” E. West, Jr, age 68 of Pittsboro, NC, passed away with his son, Andrew, at his bedside early Tuesday morning, February 11, 2020 at the Bryan UNC Hospice Home in Pittsboro. Rick was born May 1, 1951 in Greensboro, NC to the late Robert E. West, Sr. from whom he learned tolerance and acceptance and Betty Jean Fortson from whom he learned faith and love of God.

Rick lived his entire childhood and young teen years in Greensboro where he enjoyed close relationships with his family and many friends. Growing up, Rick cherished hunting trips with his father and other family to Lake Mattamuskeet in eastern NC.

He graduated from Grimsley High School in 1969 and returned to Greensboro in October 2019 for the Grimsley 50th reunion. Rumor has it that Rick was an inspirational star on the dance floor! At Grimsley, Rick played on the golf team as an exceptionally talented golfer. After high school, Rick studied political sciences at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill (UNC-CH). Post college, after working for years in various aspects of commercial and residential construction in the Chapel Hill area, Rick joined UNC Facilities Services in 1989 designing mechanical and electrical systems for new and renovated buildings on campus. Rick loved his work at UNC-CH and was an avid Tar Heel basketball fan. He retired from UNC-CH in 2010. In retirement, Rick was grateful to have more time for his beloved family, his many pets and his love of running. Rick recently calculated that he ran more than 30,000 miles over the course of his life. Jordan Lake was Rick’s favorite running destination. The Lake was also Rick’s sanctuary where he spent many hours in meditation, bird watching, and running with his dogs.

Rick was a friend to all and loved nothing better than to engage in a lengthy conversation about anything and everything. Devoted father, friend and grandfather; Rick lived his life with great passion and intensity, frequently reminding us to be positive, embrace the beauty in life, and not to sweat the small stuff. He faced the last days of his illness with grace and peace, practicing his “rule number one” of “don’t panic.” We will miss Rick intensely and remember him always with love.

Rick is survived by his sons, Andrew R. West (Nikki) and Jefferson A. West; three granddaughters, two grandsons, his brother Donald B. West (Bonnie), his favorite Aunt Rosa, cousin Stan West, a niece, two nephews, and many friends.

Family will host a celebration of Rick’s life Saturday, February 29, 2020 from 3-5pm at Donaldson Funeral Home  396 West Pittsboro St. Pittsboro, NC 27312.

Rick’s family is profoundly grateful for the compassionate care and support of the staffs at the NC Cancer Hospital at UNC and, especially, the Jim & Betsy Bryan Hospice Home of UNC Healthcare in Pittsboro.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the UNC Hospice Home. Memorial gifts can be made online at go.unc.edu/unchospice, or checks made payable to the Medical Foundation of NC may be mailed to 123 West Franklin Street, Suite 510, Chapel Hill NC 27516.

 



 
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02/14/20 03:37 PM #1    

Brent Cousins

I was glad to be able to see and talk to Rick at the 50th. I knew he was ill, but I was not ready for this. We were not close friends during high school days, but got to know him much better over the years since. Always an interesting conversation when you talked to Rick. I will miss seeing him.  


02/15/20 11:52 AM #2    

Mary Kraft (Kraft)

This too was a startle to me.  I had a lovely conversation with Rick in the hall as I was leaving the reunion event.  I did not know Rick well in high school, and this was my first reunion to attend, so I had not gotten to know him any better in the past 50 years, but I remembered thinking he was someone I would have loved to get to know better.  He was curious about what I had to say and was willing to be vulnerable about what he shared.  I am sorry that I learned that about him so late in his life.  My condolences to all of you who called Rick a friend.  


02/15/20 02:29 PM #3    

Ellen Smith (Smith)

I, too, enjoyed several conversations with Rick at our 50th reunion.  We reminisced about "making out" in high school, which then meant kissing!  We caught up with going-ons since our last reunion and his cancer and his running.  I really expected to see him at our 55th!  I will miss that smile and shining light.  What a sweetheart!


02/17/20 08:15 AM #4    

Pamela Wyrick (West)

His Dear Classmates ~ I know Rick would want me to write to you today and tell each of you how much the 50th Reunion meant to him.  Rick is my husband Stan's first Cousin.  Rick and I were in Homeroom together and although years separated us, like many of us, Rick and I talked more on the phone in recent years.  Those phone calls were full of his "grace".  That was a favorite word of Rick's.  Rick knew the adversity he faced as his cancer had spread.  He knew he was a miracle for his time.  With persuasion, I gave Rick the opportunity he needed as he faced trying to beat the odds.  He and I decided the Reunion was a Golden Ticket to what turned out to be the most exciting week-end of his later life.  Rick lived a life of solitude with his dogs and visits with his son, wife and grandchildren in Hillsborough.  His ex-wife looked in on him and provided a caring heart.  Rick went down rapidly after the Reunion - his ex-wife will tell you.  His younger brother, Don, tells us what an impact each of you had on Rick - talking to him, dancing with him and giving your hearts to him as fellow classmates.  Rick took away so much from each of you giving a little of yourselves.  He would be telling you that all he needed in life was his grandchildren, his dogs and watching the sunset.   Blessings, Pam

 


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